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How to Stay in Love with Your Soul Mate, with Special Guest Ester Brooks

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Thirty-five years ago, I somehow convinced an extraordinary woman to marry me. Our relationship began like any other—attraction, a leap of faith, and eventually the decision to embark on the unknown journey ahead of us together. 

In this episode of Office Hours, my wife, Ester Munt-Brooks, and I reflect on what we’ve learned over 35 years of choosing each other—from the risks we took early on, to why love is much more than a feeling. Drawing on the wisdom of Thomas Aquinas, we explore what it truly means to love—and how that understanding can transform every relationship.

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Where to find Ester Munt-Brooks: 

• Website: https://www.fevaloryalegria.org/ 

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/estermunt 

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/FAITHWITHJOYTALKS/ 

Referenced:

The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness

Meaning Membership

The Happiness Scale

The Pursuit of Happiness with Arthur Brooks

The Meaning of Your Life Retreats

To Will the Good of the Other

The purpose of life is to be happy

The Nicomachean Ethics

My 6-Step Morning Protocol for a Better Day

The Institute for Family Studies

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(00:00) Intro

(08:55) Arthur and Ester’s love story

(14:02) The risks they took to give it a shot

(19:30) How Ester came to embrace marriage

(24:36) The next stage: Marriage and children

(28:05) St. Thomas Aquinas’s definition of love

(45:20) What’s coming up in future episodes on love

(46:04) The three big love lessons

(49:26) Q&A: Personalizing a morning routine for your needs

(55:06) Q&A: How to think about faith while dating

(57:54) Q&A: How having children impacts happiness

(1:02:30) Q&A: How to meet people in person

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