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How to Make Your Personality Work FOR You (and Not AGAINST You) In Life

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If you’re an introvert, you might not like what the research has to say: Extroverts tend to be happier. But before you start striking up conversations with strangers in the elevator, there’s more to the story.

In this episode of Office Hours, I explore how your personality might shape your happiness, what introverts and extroverts can learn from each other, and why understanding your natural tendencies can help you cultivate habits towards a more connected and, therefore, happier life.

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Referenced:

The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness

Arthur’s newsletter

• The Happiness Scale

The development of markers for the Big-Five factor structure

Carl Jung

Extraversion and happiness

Intelligence assessment: a theoretical and experimental approach

Happiness, introversion-extraversion and happy introverts

Hans Eysenck's interface between the brain and personality: Modern evidence on the cognitive neuroscience of personality

Extraversion advantages at work: A quantitative review and synthesis of the meta-analytic evidence

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

Hello, stranger? Pleasant conversations are preceded by concerns about starting one

guest appearing in this episode

(00:00) Intro

(09:00) Personality traits and genetics

(10:47) Jung’s work on personality

(12:54) The Big Five personality traits (OCEAN)

(20:55) Eysenck’s theories on introversion and extroversion

(23:26) Why extroverts tend to have a happiness advantage

(32:02) What introverts can learn from extroverts

(38:44) What extroverts can learn from introverts

(43:04) Happiness homework for introverts and extroverts

(45:01) Q&A: Budgeting, vacations, and happiness

(47:02) Q&A: Dealing with romantic failure

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