These traits are dials,
not switches
To fit the Dark Triad, a person scores above the population average on all three traits. But like any trait, each one runs along a scale. Higher than average levels are not anyone's destiny.
Recent research has found that intentional efforts to become more agreeable (being kinder, more considerate, modest, and helpful) can reduce all three traits over time. The dial can be turned down.
Know yourself, and the people you love, a little better
Narcissism
"It's all about me"
The goal isn't to think less of yourself. It is to think of yourself less.
Machiavellianism
"I will hurt you or use you for my gain"
Using people as tools is not a promising way to build a life full of people who love and trust you.
Psychopathy
"I'll have little remorse when I hurt you"
Knowing what is right and feeling moved to do it are not the same thing.
What the quiz is, and what it isn't
A look at three well-studied personality traits, not a clinical diagnosis. A high score simply suggests you may show some of these tendencies more than the average person.
Why it’s worth looking at the dark side
I'm a professor, writer, and social scientist, and I spend most of my time studying what makes people happier. So why ask you to look at your darkest traits?
Because we can't change what we won't look at. Narcissus wasn't ruined by loving himself. He was ruined because he couldn't pull his attention away from his own reflection long enough to love anyone else. Each of these traits, in its own way, turns us away from other people.
The good news is that the way out is the same for all three: turn outward. Be curious about others. Build real friendships, not deal friendships. Do what's right, even when you don't feel like it. This quiz will show you where to start.
— Arthur
