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2 Proven Strategies (and 1 Big Mistake) for Dealing with Anxiety

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Have you ever felt anxious for no clear reason, like a vague alarm going off in your mind? You’re not alone. Anxiety has become one of the fastest-growing ailments in America, affecting more than 40 million adults. Rates among young people have doubled in the past decade, and the pandemic pushed them even higher.

In this episode of Office Hours, I’m tackling the epidemic of anxiety: what it is, why it’s on the rise, and how to work with it instead of against it. Using insights from psychology, evolutionary biology, and my own research, I share how anxiety can become not just manageable, but even leveraged as a performance enhancer. 

In this episode, I cover:

• The definition of anxiety as “unfocused fear” and how to recognize it in your own life

• Why anxiety has exploded among young adults and teens

• Why young women need to reduce their time spent on social media 

• How anxiety functions as an evolutionary alarm system designed to keep us alive

• Practical strategies for managing your anxiety that focus on presence rather than avoidance

• How the culture of pain elimination fueled the opioid crisis and what it teaches us about pain avoidance 

• Wisdom from Kierkegaard on turning your anxiety into performance-enhancing fuel

• If happiness and unhappiness can coexist

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Referenced:

The Happiness Files: Insights on Work and Life

Leadership and Happiness course

How to Build a Life

How to Worry Less and Be Happier

Anxiety: An Evolutionary Approach

My Age of Anxiety: Fear, Hope, Dread, and the Search for Peace of Mind

Trends in anxiety among adults in the United States, 2008–2018: Rapid increases among young adults

Global Prevalence of Depressive and Anxiety Symptoms in Children and Adolescents During COVID-19: A Meta-analysis

Teens are spending nearly 5 hours daily on social media. Here are the mental health outcomes

Pain-avoidance versus reward-seeking: an experimental investigation

Catastrophizing a prognostic factor for outcome in patients with low back pain: a systematic review

Trends in Opioid Analgesic-Prescribing Rates by Specialty, U.S., 2007-2012

The Changing Opioid Crisis: development, challenges and opportunities

Report shows decreases in opioid prescribing, increase in overdoses

•  How to handle anxiety: The effects of reappraisal, acceptance, and suppression strategies on anxious arousal

The mindful way through depression: Freeing yourself from chronic unhappiness

Fear of happiness predicts subjective and psychological well-being above the behavioral inhibition system (BIS) and behavioral activation system (BAS) model of personality

Pain Avoidance and Its Relation to Neural Response to Punishment Characterizes Suicide Attempters with Major Depression Disorder

Pain, avoidance, and suffering

Mindfulness-based stress reduction, mindfulness-based cognitive therapy, and Zen meditation for depression, anxiety, pain, and psychological distress

The Effectiveness of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) in Real-World Healthcare Services

Effectiveness of mindfulness-based cognitive therapy for treating generalized anxiety disorder and the moderating influence of abuse during childhood: A randomized controlled trial

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

An Overview of Research on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Meaning of Anxiety

The Concept of Anxiety: A Simple Psychologically Oriented Deliberation in View of the Dogmatic Problem of Hereditary Sin

From Anxiety to Adventure: Kevin Majeres on Reframing Challenges

Analysis of self-healing of depression by helping others in adolescents from the perspective of constructivism

Kindness as a Stress Reduction–Health Promotion Intervention: A Review of the Psychobiology of Caring

Exploring the Effects of Volunteering on the Social, Mental, and Physical Health and Well-being of Volunteers: An Umbrella Review

“I” and “Me”: The Self in the Context of Consciousness

Build the Life You Want: The Art and Science of Getting Happier

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Timestamps

(00:00) Intro

(03:30) A definition of anxiety

(06:11) Statistics around the current anxiety epidemic

(07:39) Do social media and screen time contribute to anxiety?

(08:49) How to work with your anxiety

(12:13) Technique #1: The anxiety journal

(17:46) Technique #2: How NOT to treat it: Elimination

(28:26) Technique #3: Frame anxiety as an adventure

(31:46) Does modern Western culture lean too much toward self-focus?

(33:01) How do you get better at happiness and unhappiness coexisting?

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