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The Three Macronutrients of Happiness, and How to Measure Yours

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Everyone wants to be happier—but too often we go chasing things that make us miserable instead.

In this episode of Office Hours, I break down the three big elements—what I call “macronutrients”—that you must have to live a happy life: enjoyment, satisfaction, and meaning. I offer practical ways to strengthen each macronutrient in your own life and revisit the concept of emotional profiles. I help you think about your unique experience of positive and negative emotions, how to lean into your strengths, and how to manage your weaknesses.

And one exciting bonus: My team and I have developed a survey that measures both your unique macronutrient composition and your emotional profile. I hope you can use it to start getting happier today. Take the Happiness Scale at learn.arthurbrooks.com/the-happiness-scale.

Referenced:

Take the Happiness Scale test

How to Build a Life

The Happiness Files: Insights on Work and Life

Peter Drucker’s website

Twin Studies: A Unique Epidemiological Tool

Genetic Influences on the Development of Alcoholism

3 Steps to Managing Your Emotions

The Rolling Stones - (I Can't Get No) Satisfaction (Official Lyric Video)

The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness

Meaning of Life Questionnaire

The three meanings of meaning in life: Distinguishing coherence, purpose, and significance

Introduction to the Ventrolateral Prefrontal Cortex (VLPFC)

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(00:00) Intro

(03:28) How genetics influences happiness

(08:36) Why pursuing happiness isn’t selfish

(09:23) Why we long for happiness and why we make mistakes trying to find it

(10:54) Misconception #1: Happiness isn’t a destination; it is a direction

(14:30) Misconception #2: Happiness isn’t a feeling

(18:24) The three macronutrients of happiness

(20:11) Macro #1: Enjoyment (versus pleasure)

(24:45) Macro #2: Satisfaction

(28:44) Macro #3: Meaning

(33:36) The role of unhappiness

(37:04) Misconception #3: Trying to eliminate all suffering

(38:17) The four combinations of affect profiles and how to measure your happiness

(49:40) Q&A: Being happier with type 1 diabetes

(51:09) Q&A: How to get better at public speaking

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