If you’ve been feeling empty or lonely and are looking for immediate solutions, I hope today’s episode helps—and if you want to go deeper, you can order my new book, The Meaning of Your Life, out March 31.
Today’s topic: the loneliness epidemic. We know more people than ever before, but do we actually know them? In a world of constant connection, many people still feel unseen, unknown, and disconnected from those around them.
In this episode of Office Hours, I explore why loneliness has become so widespread and how it shows up in our relationships. I talk about the difference between being known and being understood, why feeling understood matters so much for happiness, and how modern habits and technologies can make it easier to stay in touch while avoiding real connection.
Change means pushing back against our instincts and doing things that feel like the opposite of what we want. That can sound daunting, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. In this episode, I share four simple habits that, with practice, become easier and help lay the groundwork for more meaningful relationships.
If you’ve been feeling lonely, this episode explores what happens when we stop waiting for that feeling to fix itself.
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Referenced:
• The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness
• Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World
• New Cigna Study Reveals Loneliness at Epidemic Levels in America
• The Good Life: Lessons From the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness
• On Feeling Understood and Feeling Well: The Role of Interdependence
• The neural bases of feeling understood and not understood
• Perceived social isolation and cognition
• How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
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